BASIC GUIDE ON CAREGIVER / LITTLE DYNAMIC BY BABY LINH * * * WHAT IS A CGL RELATIONSHIP?: CGL stands for Caregiver/ Little. It's a type of dynamic where one partner takes on a caregiving role (e.g. Daddy, Mommy). It is NOT a relationship between an actual parent and child (incest) or any minor (if sexual). This is a type of BDSM relationship that may or may not involve sex, but often involves play with child-like things, such as stuffed animals, bedtime stories, and spankings. The little part of the relationship is often called the "Little One." On the other hand, the Little partner acts childlike in a youthful headspace. They look up to their Caregiver as A SOURCE OF SAFETY AND GUIDANCE. Not all Littles or Middles identify with being submissives. Similarly, not all Caregivers/ Daddies/ Mommies identify with a dominant role. You should never assume anyone's role and identity. CGL is gender-neutral. Some people also use it to mean a non-sexual dynamic. The CGL dynamic itself can be sexual, non-sexual or platonic. It's possible to have a mixture of non-sexual CGL and other sexual D/s aspects in the overall dynamic. Consent, limits, negotiation, aftercare and safety are all essential aspects to include. WHY THIS DYNAMIC?: People find this type of dynamic FULFILLING for various reasons. Some people want to FEEL SMALL, almost INVISIBLE, or DELICATE and HELPLESS while knowing they are SAFE within their partner's presence. Some people use this space to GET TO KNOW THEIR INNER CHILD. Some are attracted to partners who have AUTHORITY AND POWER, but also SWEETNESS AND CARING. And some people desire to wholeheartedly care for their partners, in every way. The nature of a CGL dynamic centers on the act of caring for others and being cared for, a desire many of us have on various levels. The Caregiver partner finds A SENSE OF DUTY and fulfilment in this dynamic. They are pleased to know that their Littles or Middles TRUST and count on them. My Daddy Dom takes pride in caring for me. And he loves to see me GROW INTO THE HAPPIEST VERSION OF ME. On the other side, the Little or Middle can satisfy their desires of being seen and looked after. * * * TO BE CONTD… SEE PART 2