How to Have Phone Sex Easily; Your Partner would Love 

The idea of speaking erotically in breathless tones and dirty talk is what comes to mind when many people think of phone sex. You may think of phone sex operators who know exactly what to say and when to arouse the person on the other end of the line. 

 Getting into the mood to enjoy some intimacy with your long-distance partner or lover can be satisfying and keep the spark alive when there's a geographical barrier. 

 On the surface, 

 Phone sex seems easy enough, though there is a big difference between talking sexy on impulse and indulging in a full-blown scene of enjoyable phone intimacy. 

 Getting prepared and knowing how to get your partner turned on takes a bit of effort, but worth it!

 Getting prepared begins before the phone call. You'll need to get yourself in the mood and create an atmosphere that makes the transition from introductions and pleasantries into sex talk. 

 Choose a comfortable space where you can feel at ease and with enough privacy. Play soft or ambient music with dimmed lighting or candles, or anything that will set the mood.

 Add some essential oils or your favorite perfume. 

 You can dress in a sexy outfit or lingerie.

 Just because he can't see you doesn't mean it won't make a difference. If you feel sexy, this will resonate through your voice when you engage him.

 

How to Initiate Phone Sex

So,

 You want to turn your boyfriend on and get him hot and horny. This sounds simple enough initially, but how do you get started? It may seem easy from the perspective of the person receiving a few sexy lines to whet their appetite and engage in return, though igniting the spark can be a bit tricky at first.

 Taking the initiative means finding the right moment to get his attention.

 Begin by finding out more about your partner's location: are they in a private place or spot where they can engage in some kinky talk?

 You might consider starting with one of these lines:

"Are you in bed?" or "Are you all alone and in a private place?" followed by "I want to be with you right now" and "If only I could be there…

 Let me tell you what I would do to make you smile…" Direct the conversation in a way that piques their interest for more one you begin. Follow up with "what are you wearing?" or "What do you think I'm wearing right now?" 

 First,

 Get to know what your partner wants.

 If you're talking to somebody you're not too familiar with, as a sex phone operator, you'll need to understand what turns them on, as this will set the stage for the conversation's flavor. Begin by using one or two lines, then listen for cues.

 How do they respond?

 If you hear a moan or sound of pleasure, this is a hint to keep moving in the same direction. Probe them more, "would you like me to continue talking like that?", "Is this turning you on?" and "Do you like that?" 

 Consider some of these lines to engage your lover:

"Tell me more about what you want. How do you want me? 

"Tell me how to turn you on."

 Maintain a sultry but relaxing voice.

 Your lover may enjoy a hint of submission in your tone or something much different. If your partner wants to hear you talk to them with some dominance, a firm, but the sexy theme and similar language will do the trick:

 "Give yourself to me. I will decide how I want you to pleasure me."

"Get on your knees and let me tell you what I want."

Once you venture into explicit language and talk of naughtiness and specific fetishes, you'll quickly slip into the more satisfying part of the conversation.

 Discussing sex often, even outside of phone sex, will make the transition into dirty talk much less effortless.

 How to Talk About Sex with Your Partner

 The more comfortable you are talking about sex with your partner, the more comfortable and fun the experience will be. Getting to know what interests him is essential because it will get things hot and exciting quickly.

 Does your partner enjoy sexting, sending nudes, or talking dirty?

 Does he have a specific kink or preference that drives him wild?

 If he has little enjoyment of these options, don't be afraid to explore something new and fresh, such as sex toys or role-playing. If you have a fetish, introduce the concept gently to see if he responds, then waits for a response.

 As you continue engaging with your partner or lover, keep in mind that there is no script for talking dirty, just a great sense of imagination and a willingness to explore further.

 How can you expand your conversation into a more in-depth, more intense session? Consider these ideas for you and your lover:

 

• Keep one or more sex toys within reach and use them during your call. Explicitly describe what you're doing and at each step of the process, from getting yourself wet to penetration and climax. Describe how it's making you feel and that you're thinking of him while you're speaking. This will drive him wild!

 

• If you laugh or giggle, don't worry about leaving a negative impression. You might feel a bit nervous or embarrassed at first, and this is normal. It's good to unleash the human side of sex, too, instead of trying to sound or "act" too entirely over the phone. Don't be afraid to show your vulnerable side either, as this is also a turn-on for many men, who will feel they know you better. This only gives them more incentive to enjoy you more.

 

• There may be some silence moments at times, which is expected, immensely, if you and your lover are enjoying the state of arousal and amid climax. You don't have to vocal for the entire session, and letting go briefly to moan or pleasure yourself will enhance the experience overall.

 

 Talking Freaky to Your Boyfriend

 Now that you have his attention, you'll want to get creative with some fun dialogue.

 Does he like high heels and lingerie or being teased with a specific technique?

 For example, if your lover has a foot fetish, describe your feet and how you're playing with them. "Invite" him to touch and stroke them as part of your dialogue, then wait for him to respond. You'll know exactly what's working at this stage, and it will only get more comfortable and more fun. "Tell me more about your feet and what you want me to do with them," or, if he wants you to play with his feet, engage him in this way.

Other fetishes, kinks, and specific interests are essential for many people and integral to getting some people off. The more you learn and understand your partner or lover's kinks, the more fulfilling the phone sex. 

 Getting freaky with your boyfriend or lover improves over time as you know what gets him off and what to expect.

 Whether a little bondage and discipline is a shared kink, or you have a specific action or fulfilling request, make it a part of your conversation; the more descriptive and explicit, the better!

 Most of all, make sure you enjoy the session to the fullest extent to have other positive experiences in the future. 

 

 

Frequently Asked Questions

 The world of phone sex is a fun and exciting way to arouse people, and for some individuals, it becomes a profession or, at the least, a part-time job. One of the key ways to succeed at phone sex is understanding the person's sexual desires, using keywords and phrases to turn them on, and ultimately, taking them to orgasm.

 Before you begin,

 

There are some essential aspects of talking dirty with your lover, partner, or someone new, whether you do it for fun or as a job.

 

Question:  How do you start work as a phone sex operator?

Answer: For some people, working as a phone sex operator is a lucrative way to make money at home by using a few simple items to start:

 

1. Join a company that provides a phone line or service where you can receive calls. You may work for a company that arranges this for you as part of your employment or pay for this service as an individual contractor/operator.
2. Establish what you want for your phone sex business: how many calls do you want to receive and have on hold in the queue? How will they be monitored online, and what is the capacity of calls that you can handle? If you decide to employ one or more people to work on the phone lines with you, a more extensive queue is appropriate; otherwise, keep it simple and easy to use.
3. Set your rates and what you want to charge per minute for your calls. You'll be surprised by what people will pay for some hot dirty talk!
4. Arranging for regular direct deposits and establishing your business model is essential for tracking your earnings and promoting your phone sex line.

 

 Question:  What can you say during phone sex? What are good examples of what to say?

Answer:  "I'm getting wet," "I want to make you cum," and similar phrases are simple yet effective in getting the other person turned on and ready for action.

 Keep in mind any specific words or scenarios that enhance the experience and follow your lover's lead. Essentially, there are no perfect words or phrases, but instead, use your imagination and go with the flow of the dialogue.

 You'll be surprised at how inventive you'll become at the moment, which will only improve your phone sex skills over time.

 Question:   How much do phone sex workers make? Is it a lucrative job?

Answer:   There are no salary ranges for phone sex work, though realistically, you can set the rate and work on promoting yourself.

 Initially,

 It may not seem to be a lot of earnings, though over time, with enough persistence and commitment, you'll see better returns on your investment. Regular clients and a popular following are two important ways to ensure an increase in business and consistency. In general, the harder you're willing to work, the more you'll make!

 Question:   How do you know if you're doing it, right?

Answer:  Is your lover, boyfriend, or partner getting off and explicitly letting you know? Do you hear a tone of satisfaction on the other line? It's as simple as listening to the other person, which will give you a clear indication of whether they are turned on and on their way to reaching climax.

 There is no doubt you're doing it right in these cases, but don't be afraid to check in with them if you don't hear a response.

 "Is this working for you, baby?" or "Do you want me to keep going or try something else?" If one method isn't doing the trick, ask what makes them horny, and follow their lead.

 There's nothing wrong with changing direction and asking for some as well.

 This technique will give your lover more confidence in you, as you're taking their needs and satisfaction seriously.

 Question:  Is phone sex illegal with someone underage?

Answer:  Never engage with anyone with sexually explicit language if they are underage, even if they claim to be legally old enough. Most countries and regions have strict laws about adult entertainment, which stipulate a legal age for anyone involved in phone sex and related activities.

Professional phone sex companies and websites explicitly state that participants must be over the minimum age to use the services.

 In cases where a client or person states they are of legal age, but you suspect they are not, cease the conversation immediately. 

 Question:  How can I use a vibrator or toy while engaging in phone sex?

Answer: Hands-free and speakerphone options are excellent if available and comfortable using them. You can also take periodic breaks to play and encourage your lover or partner to do the same. If you're open to trying new products, consider a remote vibrator for use with your intimate partner, or if you are the one in control, let them know what you're doing on how you're getting off. Try various other toys, including butt plugs, anal beads, and explore new ways to get wet and wild.

 Mastering the skill of phone sex is much easier than you think, and getting used to knowing what to say, how to speak, and when it becomes second nature over time.

 From beginners to seasoned sex phone operators, and for those who enjoy their partner long-distance, there are unlimited scenarios and ideas to explore over time.

 Ultimately,

 This can improve the real-life experience, if this is an end goal, or lead to fulfilling sexual engagement over the phone.

 Keep it fun and exciting by trying something new each time, and you'll see more satisfaction with each session!